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The Power of Bold Decisions—Why Playing It Safe Won’t Get You There

  • thewomenofdestiny01
  • Mar 28
  • 2 min read

Have you ever felt like you are standing at the edge of something significant or life-changing, but instead of stepping forward, you freeze?

Maybe it is launching that business idea, finally speaking up at work, or even saying yes to a new opportunity that scares you. Instead of taking action, you start listing all the reasons why now isn’t the right time:

❌ What if I fail?

❌ What if people do not take me seriously?

❌ What if I am not ready?

Sound familiar?

I get it. I have been there. And let me tell you something I have learned over the years: playing it safe has never led to growth.

Growth Requires Risk

Every significant shift in my life, whether stepping into leadership, mentoring women across the globe, or running international coaching retreats, started with a bold, sometimes terrifying decision.

Was I ready? No.

Did I have all the answers? No

But I did it anyway. And that is where the transformation happened.

Most people wait until they feel ready before they make a move, but the truth is, you will never feel ready. Growth requires action, and action requires courage, not certainty.

Why Do We Hold Back?

Many of us live in what I call the “comfort trap.” This space is predictable, manageable, and safe. While comfort feels good, it also keeps us stuck.

How many opportunities have you passed up because stepping into the unknown felt too risky?

Let me ask you this: What is the cost of playing it safe?

The cost was almost giving up on my dream of coaching women into purpose. I had doubts, fears, and excuses, but then I realized I would never step into my calling if I stayed in my comfort zone.

Your Next Bold Move

Maybe your next bold move is not something grand. Perhaps it is as simple as:

✨ Sending that email.

✨ Starting that course.

✨ Saying “yes” to an opportunity that excites and terrifies you simultaneously.

Whatever it is, don’t wait for permission. Make the decision. Move forward. Adjust along the way because the life you dream of? It is on the other side of bold.

 

 

 
 
 

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